The problem

The master spreadsheet is quietly breaking you.

One partner becomes the human hub, chasing every detail by hand. It does not scale, and it is the fastest way to turn planning into a second job.

Life on the spreadsheet
  • Texting the same cousin three times for one address
  • Reconciling two copies of the same spreadsheet at midnight
  • Digging through group chats to find a single dietary note
  • Retyping meal choices one guest at a time

So we built the opposite. One personal link does the chasing for you.

The personal link

One personal link does the chasing for you.

Send each household their own page. They fill in their details, and everything lands straight in your dashboard. No spreadsheet, no back and forth.

  • Their mailing address, formatted and ready to print
  • Meal choice and dietary notes
  • Song requests and a note to the couple
  • Plus-one names, entered by the guest themselves
  • Every response syncs to both partners in real time
  • No app to download, no password to forget

Designs

Every personal link, beautifully yours.

Fourteen designed invitations, with animated reveals that open like real stationery. Switch the look in a tap, and your guests see it instantly.

01 / 14

Envelope

Animated

Tap to open, sealed

Accent

Start free to make it yours

All 14 designs, fully customizable once you sign up.

The full platform

One system, from the proposal to the last dance.

The personal link is where most couples start. It is not where the work ends. Every tool lives in the same place, built on the same guest list.

One personal link per household. Responses land in real time, grouped by family, with meals and dietary notes attached.

idotogether/guests
Total Guests

147

Attending

114

Pending

19

Declined

14

HouseholdStatus
The Hawthorne Family
Confirmed
EHEvelyn Hawthorne
Filet Mignon
Attending
MHMarcus Hawthorne
Roast Chicken
Attending
Noah Diaz
Pending
Liam Garcia
Declined
Priya & Raj Nair
1/2

It all runs on the same guest list you already built. Nothing to enter twice.

Why iDoTogether

Built to manage your wedding, not sell to you.

The Knot and Zola are marketplaces. Their product is your attention and your guest data. Ours is the software that keeps you sane.

Marketplaces

The Knot, Zola

  • Ads and vendor spam in your inbox
  • Your guest data sold to advertisers
  • Built to sell you leads
  • Generic forms, no personal link
  • A guest list, then you are on your own

Wedding OS

iDoTogether

  • No ads, not now, not ever
  • Your data, exportable any time
  • Built to manage, never to monetize
  • One personal link per household
  • Checklist, vendors, budget, and seating included

What couples are saying

The spreadsheet never stood a chance.

“I had texted my aunt three times for her address with no reply. I sent the personal link instead and it was filled in before I finished my coffee. The whole list came together the same way.”
Rachel M.147 guests
“We kept overwriting each other's copy of the spreadsheet. One shared list fixed it overnight. Planning finally felt like we were on the same team.”
James & Sofia K.203 guests
“Finding one allergy used to mean scrolling three group chats. Now every guest enters their own details and it is just there when I need it.”
Priya N.89 guests
“By month four our spreadsheet had duplicate names and three wrong addresses. We rebuilt the whole list here in an afternoon and never looked back.”
Marcus & Dana T.178 guests

Pricing

Simple pricing. No surprises.

Start free. Upgrade once if you ever need more. No monthly fees, no sneaky extras.

Free

Your wedding day, up to 50 guests.

$0free

  • Every guest, household, and RSVP in one place
  • Personal links, guests add their own address and RSVP
  • RSVP forms that collect meals and dietary needs
  • Guided checklist so nothing slips through
  • Budget tracker that shows what's left
  • Seating chart built from your guest list
  • Vendor tracker from first call to booked
  • Real time planning with your partner
  • Export to CSV or PDF anytime
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Complete

Everything to run your wedding.

$99one time

less than one vendor deposit

  • Everything in Free, plus:
  • Unlimited guests, 50 or 5,000
  • Unlimited events, rehearsal to brunch
  • Unlimited team members
  • Vendor contracts, invoices, and receipts in one place
Get Complete

Forever

Complete, plus the memory layer.

$199one time

the photo board your guests fill

  • Everything in Complete, plus:
  • Photo Board, guests upload and you keep every photo (coming soon)
  • First access to every new feature, free for life
Get Forever

Common questions

Everything worth knowing before you start. Still curious? Email us.

No. Your account includes the checklist, seating chart, vendor tracker, and budget, all built around the same guest list.

Yes. Your data is yours. Export to CSV whenever you want, even on the free plan. No gotchas.

We let you know. Keep managing your first 50 for free, or upgrade once to Complete for unlimited guests. Either way, you never get locked out.

Complete is everything you need to run the wedding, with no limits. Forever adds the memory layer on top, starting with the Photo Board, plus first access to future premium features.

No. Pay once and it is yours. Other planning tools charge $20 or more every month. Complete and Forever are one-time purchases, not subscriptions. Your access never expires and the price never changes.

Never. We are 100% user funded. No ads means no incentive to sell your data.

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Your guest list is one link away from filling itself.

Set up your wedding in 30 seconds. Send the first personal link before you go to bed.

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